Some maybe familiar to you....or maybe ALL.....
Message: The guy who loves his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has high respect for his mother, he will have high respect for women. (ehem...)
Don't give everything away. Leave somethings a mystery. Guys love conquest.
If you already give your all, wala ng something to look forward to sa
relationship nyo. And the guy will become kampante. Assure him of your
love and faithfulness, but warn him too: "umayos ka diyan! You can lose me
anytime...".
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its his
ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends,
sports, family, self, and God. Therelationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how he will
love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you
all the time, tell him you cant respect a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit
matagal na kayo, there is always
something fresh and new. Variety is the
spice of life. Exciting baga?
"Making love" is better than just "having
sex". And true love "waits". Save
your precious "gift" on your wedding
night. Di nagiging tama ang mali, just
because uso naman and everyone's
doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do
and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa
mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo,
compliment each other by learning about
it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung
effort nyo to try will go a
looooong way to understanding him later
pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend,mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective. Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal. Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na...". Only God can change a person, and only if that person wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter (aminin mo) ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati na tayo...".
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na. Don't sweat the small stuff.
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